You moved to another city for work or for study at a prestigious university? Fled loved one, and now among you vast distances? Well, do not worry, now you have to start relationships at a distance. Of course, if you really want.
I want it!
Naturally, you will not be easy. But there are several things that will help save a relationship, as between you and the beloved of hundreds of kilometers.
1. Find foothold
You start a new life as a student or as a new employee. Such major life events is akin to relocate to a new planet. At first, all you will find chuzhym, unfamiliar: and those around you, and himself a new city. This is especially difficult when there is no close loved one who could support you in difficult times. It is very important to find a foothold and get on their feet, find their place in life. Only then can we begin to think about how to maintain relationships.
2. Find friends
Even if all your thoughts now about the lover with whom you are separated by hundreds, thousands of kilometers, is worth making an effort and start talking with new people. Of course, not be carried away and immediately familiarize themselves with all the running, but need to make friends with at least a few people. You especially lucky if they too would be "novices", and adapt to new environment, you can together. <
3. Acquire speechless
It is natural to feel depressed if you miss on its halves, but do not close on people, otherwise you may become even worse. Tell us about your experiences, and you will feel better: you'll see what prospects there are in your relationship. Help friends and can speak his girlfriend, parents, psychologists, and even colleagues.
This is love?
Now, when you do not close and do not spend all their time together, it is worth considering that if you do not exaggerate the importance of these relations. Maybe the rose-colored glasses broken, and it turns out that with the current partner you spend time in vain.
Of course, the relationship at a distance and may exacerbate your feelings, to make relationships more delicate. But that requires trust and substantial cost for short trips to each other. Decide whether to continue the relationship, only you, but do not forget to find out what your partner feels.
What are you doing this Friday?
Now, when you spend your free time apart, consider how you use the time spent together. For example, your favorite weekend preferred to sit at the TV, it's senseless clicking the remote control, and you want to travel around the country. Or is it all right? Now you have time to think about it and find a compromise for the future.
And then? <
Do not build all future plans for the weekend of your life: perhaps your attitude would change drastically, and some time you will see each other often. It is important to remember that their thoughts and emotions should not hide from the partner, he must know all changes in your feelings. Nobody will give you a guarantee that your relationship survive the separation, but mutual honesty will help you cope with difficulties.
Enough! I do not need!
Do not be fooled: the idea that your partner is on the other end of the world, might be to far. But do not think that now you can be windy, but he does not know it. Over deception certainly come a sense of guilt and regret, and even worse would be if the deception ever be revealed.
1. Speak honest
If you are not sure that will be faithful - better to leave immediately. Even before you loudly swore eternal love, still do not make out once said the words the reason you do not need to maintain relationships.
2. Be a good girl
There is no need to tell more about your new life, if you decide to separate. Especially if you remain faithful to the gap you still failed. Admit that you need to leave and not go into unnecessary details of your current personal life, there is no need to do the former beloved hurt.
3. Be strong
Part is not always easy. Gap very few people survive easily, and help to overcome this difficult period can only honesty and respect for each other. The only way you can maintain friendly relations. Think about where and when the report of its decision. Do not invite ex-lover to visit only in order to say that he was the former.
Relationship at a distance - a complicated thing, and decided on a cost only, think carefully about all the pluses and minuses. On the other hand, the development of Internet communications makes it possible not only to communicate, and even see each other. Our ancestors such opportunities could not boast. For example, if in love help create a program Skype, which allows to see the talking during the interactive discussion.
Monday, November 23, 2009
8 ideas of good sex
Every woman in his own charming and unique. And almost each one has in store unsurpassed techniques seduction of men. But that evening, spent with her beloved, was even more interesting and more romantic, offering 8 original ideas for good sex.
Idea first: Mirroring
How long have you watched the two of us are doing sex? This is very Turns men, believe me. Select where in the house can be so arranged. If the biggest and convenient mirror fixed tightly and it is difficult to drag to bed, you can love each other, for example, in the living room. If possible, install on all sides additional mirrors, call the glazier, finally, let them stand up with a mirror nearby. Turn around so that all could see, feel free to snoop on all sides, to make each other compliments.
Idea two: A comfortable rocking
Many of these judges have sex specially composed its furniture rocking chair. If you have not tried to do it with love, then lost a lot - quickly run into the furniture store. Well, if you do not have sex for a main hobby, you can just asked for an overnight stay at the villa to friends who love to swing with a book in his hand, and the night dragged a rocking chair in his room. Sex in a chair - just super-duper! Above all, relax, do not run over me on the toes.
Idea Three: Unexpected Officer
Sex in the dark - an amazing thing! This is sure. The room must be completely dark, and the reliability you can put a blindfold on. Imagine that you - the responsible employee, earned late in the office. Suddenly something burned out, and completely turned off the light. Looking for a way to the stairs, you are in pitch darkness encounter with a stranger in silence had begun to pester you. Having tried to resist, you suddenly own works and, realizing that resistance was useless, throw yourself a sudden impulse. Caressing and undressing each other, you are more and more excited, not coping with emotions. Kisses and caresses are becoming bolder and more insistent. Hands, lips ... the desire to boil all the stronger, and impatience causes tremors. Where and how you have sex - not important. Just unleash their passionate nature!
Idea Four: Checking panties
You are in no hurry to paint her dressing gown in front of sinks in the bathroom, doing her hair, dry hair, hair dryer. A man stands silently behind, peeping behind you. Surely he thinks: "What she has there with the pants, whether they are suitable in color to the gown? Are there any? We check. The man begins to verify you, but you should not be distracted. Just do not pay any attention to it, you also do not have time to put your hair after a shower. Do not restrain the natural curiosity, your service partner runs his hand under her robe, raises it and slide up the leg ... But not only the same hands to check this?
The idea of five: Learn your house
Where in your house you have not had sex? I can not believe that imagination is fully exhausted and there is not an attractive new place for amorous pleasures. Each partner offers its own version. Those who first proposed the most insane and attractive idea, becomes a director of action. Other interesting ideas written on a sheet attached to the refrigerator and wait in the wings ...
The idea of six: Stranger in your soul
When you wash in the shower, let your man suddenly turn off the light. Meanwhile, imagine that you are in after school sports club, went to the shower. Although he has lost the light, you continue to bask under the streams of water and suddenly feel like the stall comes someone else. This is a man who mistook cabins, but what to do? Angry and kick poor in the dark? Not his fault after all, which turns off the electricity. Let the next wash. Booth a little tight and it is not easy to bathe together, have to do it one by one. Although it is not very convenient. Then you start to lather each other's hands, feeling every inch of the body. It is now nothing to be ashamed, and the darkness will hide all the secrets ...
The idea of seven: Obedient slave
Wearing a girl blindfolded and tied her hands in front (or handcuffed), the man makes it a slave of his desires. Bewildered and defenseless, it's worth, not knowing that now it will do. Cynically grinning and drawing out the pleasure, the man is in a hurry and do not fuss. Slowly and with a taste he enjoys his victim, a perverse and exquisitely satisfying all of the most lustful desires and fantasies. Sex toys and other appliances, hot wax and ice cubes - anything other than iron and palnika. Now he's a full owner, and the girl's body - belongs to his lust.
The idea of eight: imperious mistress
Wearing a collar on a man, a woman turns him into a sex slave. Optionally, you can pre-buy in the sex-shop something else (secret from the men). For example, the gag, whip, handcuffs, special clothing. At the time Mrs. receive an unlimited right to his slave. Under her orders, he licks, sucks, kisses, serves, becomes the desired position. You can tie him to a bed, chair or anywhere standing. Whatever! No waivers are not accepted.
The most important thing in all these scenarios - respect for your partner. Therefore, whatever option for an erotic evening you could choose, always love each other and be happy!
Idea first: Mirroring
How long have you watched the two of us are doing sex? This is very Turns men, believe me. Select where in the house can be so arranged. If the biggest and convenient mirror fixed tightly and it is difficult to drag to bed, you can love each other, for example, in the living room. If possible, install on all sides additional mirrors, call the glazier, finally, let them stand up with a mirror nearby. Turn around so that all could see, feel free to snoop on all sides, to make each other compliments.
Idea two: A comfortable rocking
Many of these judges have sex specially composed its furniture rocking chair. If you have not tried to do it with love, then lost a lot - quickly run into the furniture store. Well, if you do not have sex for a main hobby, you can just asked for an overnight stay at the villa to friends who love to swing with a book in his hand, and the night dragged a rocking chair in his room. Sex in a chair - just super-duper! Above all, relax, do not run over me on the toes.
Idea Three: Unexpected Officer
Sex in the dark - an amazing thing! This is sure. The room must be completely dark, and the reliability you can put a blindfold on. Imagine that you - the responsible employee, earned late in the office. Suddenly something burned out, and completely turned off the light. Looking for a way to the stairs, you are in pitch darkness encounter with a stranger in silence had begun to pester you. Having tried to resist, you suddenly own works and, realizing that resistance was useless, throw yourself a sudden impulse. Caressing and undressing each other, you are more and more excited, not coping with emotions. Kisses and caresses are becoming bolder and more insistent. Hands, lips ... the desire to boil all the stronger, and impatience causes tremors. Where and how you have sex - not important. Just unleash their passionate nature!
Idea Four: Checking panties
You are in no hurry to paint her dressing gown in front of sinks in the bathroom, doing her hair, dry hair, hair dryer. A man stands silently behind, peeping behind you. Surely he thinks: "What she has there with the pants, whether they are suitable in color to the gown? Are there any? We check. The man begins to verify you, but you should not be distracted. Just do not pay any attention to it, you also do not have time to put your hair after a shower. Do not restrain the natural curiosity, your service partner runs his hand under her robe, raises it and slide up the leg ... But not only the same hands to check this?
The idea of five: Learn your house
Where in your house you have not had sex? I can not believe that imagination is fully exhausted and there is not an attractive new place for amorous pleasures. Each partner offers its own version. Those who first proposed the most insane and attractive idea, becomes a director of action. Other interesting ideas written on a sheet attached to the refrigerator and wait in the wings ...
The idea of six: Stranger in your soul
When you wash in the shower, let your man suddenly turn off the light. Meanwhile, imagine that you are in after school sports club, went to the shower. Although he has lost the light, you continue to bask under the streams of water and suddenly feel like the stall comes someone else. This is a man who mistook cabins, but what to do? Angry and kick poor in the dark? Not his fault after all, which turns off the electricity. Let the next wash. Booth a little tight and it is not easy to bathe together, have to do it one by one. Although it is not very convenient. Then you start to lather each other's hands, feeling every inch of the body. It is now nothing to be ashamed, and the darkness will hide all the secrets ...
The idea of seven: Obedient slave
Wearing a girl blindfolded and tied her hands in front (or handcuffed), the man makes it a slave of his desires. Bewildered and defenseless, it's worth, not knowing that now it will do. Cynically grinning and drawing out the pleasure, the man is in a hurry and do not fuss. Slowly and with a taste he enjoys his victim, a perverse and exquisitely satisfying all of the most lustful desires and fantasies. Sex toys and other appliances, hot wax and ice cubes - anything other than iron and palnika. Now he's a full owner, and the girl's body - belongs to his lust.
The idea of eight: imperious mistress
Wearing a collar on a man, a woman turns him into a sex slave. Optionally, you can pre-buy in the sex-shop something else (secret from the men). For example, the gag, whip, handcuffs, special clothing. At the time Mrs. receive an unlimited right to his slave. Under her orders, he licks, sucks, kisses, serves, becomes the desired position. You can tie him to a bed, chair or anywhere standing. Whatever! No waivers are not accepted.
The most important thing in all these scenarios - respect for your partner. Therefore, whatever option for an erotic evening you could choose, always love each other and be happy!
Understand each other
Why do women and men so often take offense at each other and in the home, and in the intimate life? Is it because they do not want to understand each other? They can not, but it did not want.
The statement that women are from Venus and men from Mars, I think I invented in order to justify a reluctance to make contact and mutual understanding. Trying to understand - much harder than to declare the impossibility of understanding. After all, if women and men really spoke different languages, we initially would have been denied the opportunity to build a social environment, to create a family, to work in one area ...
Of course, the outlook of men and women there are nuances, but the differences were not significant as they represent. The fact is that in order to agree, you need to talk. Do not lay up resentment, not to hope that the partner somehow magically acquire the gift of foresight and start reading our thoughts and divine will, and talk.
Take intim ...
Sexual relations in the family play an important role.
Scientists argue over how much love lives: get a year, then two, according to the latest survey - even four ... Many trees live a hundred years ... and even thousands ... And how they will live, if you deprive them of moisture and sunlight? To fill with dust and poison gas ... about what we do with our feelings: someone out of ignorance, someone on the spiritual negligence and laziness. If you want to be happy and keep their love a hundred years, then start talking with each other since the first rendezvous, and let your conversations will be with each year of marriage all the more forthright and trustworthy.
Most in the intimate life of a leadership role given to man. She holds the following positions - that he let me win, seduce, excite, appeased. If not brought to orgasm, then he is no partner. In fact, everything has to be not quite true. Man, as a woman, may be inexperienced, but that does not mean that in time he did not get a passionate lover. Moreover sexologists claim that harmony is possible in sex only if both partners think about the pleasure of each other and are excited by the fact that doing good man she loved.
Men were told a hundred times that size does not matter here ... the same story as with cellulite ... Men do not know about it until they did not report the women themselves ... The same size and masculinity are not worried about the minds of women, while about It does not have any minute to talk themselves men.
Everyone knows that the woman likes ears ... No matter what you say - even if you speak French or purr like a cat, it is still excite her. But the ears of love not only the woman. Men also arouses a passionate woman whispering, it does not matter what it is about ... groans, sighs, cries of concern to both men and woman.
And women, like men, like eyes, so do not be shy and let your partner enjoy your body. Forget about the imperfections. Once you're together, it means you like each other exactly as what you eat. Not hide their admiration for each other, be tender, talk about passion. Words: "I want you", "I am burning with impatience" - very, very excited.
Most first kisses should be cautious, as if to ask: "Can I?" In impatient and hot, they should proceed gradually with the growth of the desire of both partners. Madly excited kisses, scattered throughout the body, the main thing - do not forget to take a bath or shower proximity to both. Many like kissing and biting the ear lobe, and someone is furious ...
In this case, do not need to save irritation in yourself, and tell your partner that you dislike, and that, conversely, gives an indescribable pleasure.
You can send your favorite hand-favorite on the desired area of the body. Breast readily respond to kindness. Both men have read and heard about it. But the majority of women give pleasure only light touch, but not under pressure, especially if the breast is not silicone, but real. Strong compression may cause pain and had awakened a desire to drive. And, in any case do not bite! A man attached himself to a woman's nipple and smacked with a zeal hungry baby, too, does not cause excitement in most of the women. Much more pleasant, if a man can easily licked the nipple, as cherry, situated on a hill of ice cream. Pinch, too, do not need, and then immediately comes to mind: "We rode in a boat Grisha, Misha, and pinched. Grisha, Mishka drowned those who remained in the boat? "But some want to drown it Schipaya. Again, no excitement.
Women do not forget that many men in the world, which also excite caress their breasts and nipples. Try it on your favorite. But there are men who have any contact with the breast is a tickle, then you should not continue just to experiment with this part of the male body.
And the man and the woman excite affection inside thigh. Run her fingers on the skin of a partner, pat, kiss. In this part of the body and the trace of lovemaking left to fear. Recently read an indignant young man saying: "I also want to be kissed under the knee!" Kiss your favorite place ... And not only! Ask where your touch is particularly welcome. Each person has their own erogenous zones, and find them on the body of the beloved can be the most unexpected places.
Most people enjoy the natural scent of a partner, so it is not necessary to its proximity to pour over a bottle of toilet water and lubricate all the places gel or deodorant. Be just clean - this is quite enough. Can inflict on the body of a tiny drop of lavender oil, rose oil. The most erotic and exciting is Ylang-ylang. And anyone concerned myrtle. Feel free to experiment. But be careful - oil should not get into eyes and other sensitive places. Even on his skin, it is desirable to apply diluted with boiled water. But you can safely moisten a piece of fleece with butter and put it in a pillowcase.
To caress intimate places sexologists advise to start after all the other caresses, when the passion is nearing the top.
During proximity woman needs to throw all thoughts of immodesty, about how she looks in the eyes of a partner, and all the thoughts and actions directed towards the achievement of pleasure, because they make themselves happy woman can only herself, making mental and physical effort. A man - just a helper, a tool of the Amur, granted to her for the perception of fullness of life.
The statement that women are from Venus and men from Mars, I think I invented in order to justify a reluctance to make contact and mutual understanding. Trying to understand - much harder than to declare the impossibility of understanding. After all, if women and men really spoke different languages, we initially would have been denied the opportunity to build a social environment, to create a family, to work in one area ...
Of course, the outlook of men and women there are nuances, but the differences were not significant as they represent. The fact is that in order to agree, you need to talk. Do not lay up resentment, not to hope that the partner somehow magically acquire the gift of foresight and start reading our thoughts and divine will, and talk.
Take intim ...
Sexual relations in the family play an important role.
Scientists argue over how much love lives: get a year, then two, according to the latest survey - even four ... Many trees live a hundred years ... and even thousands ... And how they will live, if you deprive them of moisture and sunlight? To fill with dust and poison gas ... about what we do with our feelings: someone out of ignorance, someone on the spiritual negligence and laziness. If you want to be happy and keep their love a hundred years, then start talking with each other since the first rendezvous, and let your conversations will be with each year of marriage all the more forthright and trustworthy.
Most in the intimate life of a leadership role given to man. She holds the following positions - that he let me win, seduce, excite, appeased. If not brought to orgasm, then he is no partner. In fact, everything has to be not quite true. Man, as a woman, may be inexperienced, but that does not mean that in time he did not get a passionate lover. Moreover sexologists claim that harmony is possible in sex only if both partners think about the pleasure of each other and are excited by the fact that doing good man she loved.
Men were told a hundred times that size does not matter here ... the same story as with cellulite ... Men do not know about it until they did not report the women themselves ... The same size and masculinity are not worried about the minds of women, while about It does not have any minute to talk themselves men.
Everyone knows that the woman likes ears ... No matter what you say - even if you speak French or purr like a cat, it is still excite her. But the ears of love not only the woman. Men also arouses a passionate woman whispering, it does not matter what it is about ... groans, sighs, cries of concern to both men and woman.
And women, like men, like eyes, so do not be shy and let your partner enjoy your body. Forget about the imperfections. Once you're together, it means you like each other exactly as what you eat. Not hide their admiration for each other, be tender, talk about passion. Words: "I want you", "I am burning with impatience" - very, very excited.
Most first kisses should be cautious, as if to ask: "Can I?" In impatient and hot, they should proceed gradually with the growth of the desire of both partners. Madly excited kisses, scattered throughout the body, the main thing - do not forget to take a bath or shower proximity to both. Many like kissing and biting the ear lobe, and someone is furious ...
In this case, do not need to save irritation in yourself, and tell your partner that you dislike, and that, conversely, gives an indescribable pleasure.
You can send your favorite hand-favorite on the desired area of the body. Breast readily respond to kindness. Both men have read and heard about it. But the majority of women give pleasure only light touch, but not under pressure, especially if the breast is not silicone, but real. Strong compression may cause pain and had awakened a desire to drive. And, in any case do not bite! A man attached himself to a woman's nipple and smacked with a zeal hungry baby, too, does not cause excitement in most of the women. Much more pleasant, if a man can easily licked the nipple, as cherry, situated on a hill of ice cream. Pinch, too, do not need, and then immediately comes to mind: "We rode in a boat Grisha, Misha, and pinched. Grisha, Mishka drowned those who remained in the boat? "But some want to drown it Schipaya. Again, no excitement.
Women do not forget that many men in the world, which also excite caress their breasts and nipples. Try it on your favorite. But there are men who have any contact with the breast is a tickle, then you should not continue just to experiment with this part of the male body.
And the man and the woman excite affection inside thigh. Run her fingers on the skin of a partner, pat, kiss. In this part of the body and the trace of lovemaking left to fear. Recently read an indignant young man saying: "I also want to be kissed under the knee!" Kiss your favorite place ... And not only! Ask where your touch is particularly welcome. Each person has their own erogenous zones, and find them on the body of the beloved can be the most unexpected places.
Most people enjoy the natural scent of a partner, so it is not necessary to its proximity to pour over a bottle of toilet water and lubricate all the places gel or deodorant. Be just clean - this is quite enough. Can inflict on the body of a tiny drop of lavender oil, rose oil. The most erotic and exciting is Ylang-ylang. And anyone concerned myrtle. Feel free to experiment. But be careful - oil should not get into eyes and other sensitive places. Even on his skin, it is desirable to apply diluted with boiled water. But you can safely moisten a piece of fleece with butter and put it in a pillowcase.
To caress intimate places sexologists advise to start after all the other caresses, when the passion is nearing the top.
During proximity woman needs to throw all thoughts of immodesty, about how she looks in the eyes of a partner, and all the thoughts and actions directed towards the achievement of pleasure, because they make themselves happy woman can only herself, making mental and physical effort. A man - just a helper, a tool of the Amur, granted to her for the perception of fullness of life.
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